Tuesday, October 31, 2006

Elections coming


Elections are on Tuesday, local elections for the Mayor and City Councel. So the city is full of people demonstrating in favor of the candidates of their choice. Packs of flag waving motorcyclists are common, which doesnt do much to help the traffic situation.

This photo was taken off our our back balcony.

A Monday for Lowell in India

So yesterday was Monday... what was my Monday like for me?

Amy's alarm is set for 6AM, but Sam woke us at 5:45, so we almost slept till the alarm. Then it was the bustle to get kids up and fed and Nora Grace ready for school, as her bus comes around 7:30. I took her down to the front courtyard at 7:25, but there was no guard to unlock the gate, so we both wandered around the building looking for one. As Jim Likeks says, it is a marvelous thing that this 5 year old girl thinks it is normal and natural to hold her Daddy's hand as they walk down the stairs, with her chattering about the morning. Enjoy it while I can. Found someone with a gate key before the bus came, and saw her off, with the usual advice: "Stay seated on the bus, obey your teachers, be happy, do not sass, be kind to everyone even if they are not kind to you, you will be most happy if you obey, see you this evening."

Then it was back to our apartment, where I sorted laundry, changed diapers, shaved and showered, read the paper, cleaned up from breakfast, talked to one of the neighhbor guy's (No, you cannot borrow our Stove), talked to a couple of patients on the phone ("Yes, fever with no other signs might be Dengue Fever, see me at 2PM", and "Yes, Draining a cup of pus from an abscess on your leg is a bad thing, see me at 3PM").

Amy took off for some errands at 10AM, and both Sam and Miriam chose that time to meltdown, and so I spent the next hour holding two children, and reading "Hippos go Beserk", and "A Picnic with Monet" and "Sheep in a Jeep". All of those are fun the first couple of reads, but I think I have them memorized now. So do the girls.

We had lunch of Rice and Lentils with flat bread at noon, then I got dressed and took off for the Hospitals.

About half a mile from our house, there is a key underpass where the main road goes under the railroad, and it is being repaved at the moment. Since there is no other way under the Railroad for several miles, everyone HAS to go through at this small junction. So it was packed. The advantage to a bicycle is that one can weave ones way, and cut off a few minutes. I dropped off a disc of some pictures at a Photo shop (for some Eid pictures we had taken that friends wanted copies of), and wandered on down to the Heritage Hospital via back alleys, where I saw several patients, and took several phone calls). In between I studied some, read some, chatted with staff some.

The last patient probably did have Dengue, but we will never know for sure. The test for Dengue is over 20 US Dollars, and many Travelers are on extremely short budgets, so won't have the test done. (I am hitting about 75 to 80 % correct when I guess if it is Dengue or some other viral process that hasn't been defined). The patient also couldn't afford the Hospitals fee to see me (ten USD), so we bargained a bit, and eventually agreed 2 US would be fine. OK. The Abscess patient was a delightful Japanese gal who is studying dance at a local University. She has an abscess the size of my fist in her thigh and is has been fairly ill at home. Should do well.

So then I road my bicycle to a local charitable Muslim Hospital where I also see patients for free. Since there are elections tomorrow (local elections for Mayor and such like), there were numerous traffic jams as people demonstrated on behalf of the candidates of their choice. But got through, and maybe arrived on time. It has never been clear to me when I am supposed to arrive. The posted hours are from 4 to 6, but if I arrive at 4, there is no one there and I sit around for awhile. So they told me to sit in the office from 5 to 7, but everyone else leaves at 6:30 (including staff), so if a patient did arrive after 6:30, they wouldn't even know I was there. So I play it by ear each time.

Last night there were some patients to see me, but I did not actually see them (the Orthopaedist and the Dermatologist saw them, though the patients did not have Orthopaedic or Dermatologic problems). Since this was my first day back since Samuel was born, I spent the evening wandering around the Hospital with several of the Administrators, handing out Mitthia (Indian Sweets), and showing pictures of my new baby boy. Eventually got back to clinic at 6:30, but everyone was gone by then, so I made some phone calls and did paper work, and headed home.

In trying to get home, that same railroad crossing mentioned earlier was still incredibly jammed tight, and police with large sticks were beating people to get them to go another way. Didn't think I would try my chances there, so I wandered around awhile and eventually carried my bicycle across the railroad tracks at the Canntonment station, and took the long way home through the tree covered trails of The Cannt, which wasnt too bad, though I still got caught in several traffic jams as I came by some large Mosques just as prayers let out.

Got home, had some leftover chicken pie for supper, and put the girls to bed, giving them each a blessing and then sitting and singing for awhile. I have a collection of hymnals here, so I just randomly pick one and start singing the first song I open up to, and work my way through the book from there. Last night I picked "The Christian Hymnary", a fun little compilation by this Plain Menno fellow named John Overholt. Sang about ten hymns, and got interupted with more visitors. Miriam was asleep by then and Nora Grace was on her way.

So that was my Monday.

Sunday, October 29, 2006

Eleven Candidates for Mayor, down from Twelve

Varanasi is due to have elections for Mayor and City Councel in two days. So the streets have been clogged with political demonstrations, and thousands of extra gun toting goons have moved onto the streets, allegedly to prevent violence.

There used to be twelve candidates for Mayor. It is down to eleven now.

Seems last week one of them had a bit of an accident.

Seems he wanted to get his picture in the paper. So some photographers egged him on to light himself on fire (in protest over something, just what escapes me), then they would take his picture, and then put out the fire. So the end result would be that he would get his picture in the paper emmoliating himself, but wouldn't get hurt.

So they dashed a little kerosine on his shirt, lit a match and quickly took some photos before putting the fire out. But the photos weren't very good quality.

So they did it again. Dashed a little extra kerosine on him, and tossed a match.

Only this time they couldn't get the fire out, and it spread too quickly (a bane upon this modern polyester clothing). And he ended up with 90% burns on his body and died later that day.

Isn't that frustrating when you try to stage a self-emmoliation in order to get your picture in the paper, and it actually works? I am sure there are lessons for us all to learn here, but other than "Don't be foolish", I probably won't mention any more.

Saturday, October 28, 2006

Makes you say "Hmmm"

Last week was one of the biggest Hindu festivals of the year, Diwali.

On the day after, three different patients (all western) came in with various complaints, and all three mentioned that they had "seen things that they knew were not there" on the night before.

One saw some dogs, one some people, one just saw objects moving around in his room.

Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Where's the Moon?

The Muslim month of fasting officially ends when the New Moon is sighted on the last day of the fast. If you don't see the moon, technically you cannot end your fast. Usually, each larger area has official moon watchers to watch for the emoon on the last day of the fast.

In most parts of the world, Ramzan ended last evening (Monday Evening) and the offical celebration of Eid began in earnest, when large amounts of foods are consumed through out the Muslim world.

Yesterday evening, the official moon watchers in Delhi saw the moon, and declared Ramzan to be over. The same thing happened in Lucknow, west of us, and in Bihar and Calcutta, to the east of us. And to the south of us and to the north of us.

Everyone saw the moon, and everyone declared the fast to be over, and that Tuesday should be a day of feasting...

Except for Varanasi.

In our fair city, the official moon watchers either could or did not see the moon. So for our area, the fast is not over, and the celebration will not begin until tomorrow.

Sigh.

Saturday, October 21, 2006

Need a Extra God?

With the Hindu festival of Diwali happening over the next couple of days, the air in this holy city is full of religious fervor. (Sorry if I mispelled that, Aunt Lydia). :)

So there are lots of folks who set up stands on the streets selling gods.

If you need an extra god, this is a good time of year to buy one.

If you bargain extra hard, you can get your god for extra cheap.

If the god you want is a little banged up, they will touch up the paint on your god for free.

Hmmmm. My God is not like that.

Friday Prayers

The last Friday of Ramzan (the month of fasting for Muslims) is a special day, and one gets extra points if one prays on the main noon prayers on that day. So the mosques are just packed.

Across the street from where we live is one of the biggest and more influencial mosques in the area, so it get really really packed.

The police block off all the surrounding streets so that people can spread their prayer rugs on the street as overflow. Got a 45 minutes sermon today, instead of the usual 10 minute homily.

Sunday, October 15, 2006

Recieving Visitors

Today is Sunday. We had tons of visitors today. So we gave out lots of Mitthai (Indian sweets). Samuel slept through it all, being passed from person to person, having his cheeks pinched, and so on. The photo is our Landlady.

Saturday, October 14, 2006

This Magnificant Non-Event (Well Almost)

The delivery of Samuel happened so fast, it almost seems like it didn't happen. We were home 20 hours after Amy went into labor.

The lack of any concentrated Hospital time makes it feel like it didn't really happen.

But then I'll walk into the bedroom and see Samuel laying there and say, "Where did that come from?". And Amy just pats her stomach and smiles.

So we are getting used to the new baby.

And lots of people are bringing us food. And we are eating REALLY well. Did you know that South Africans are one of only two countries where the average meat consumption is greater than the USA (the other being Argentina)? I say that in introduction because there are lots of South Africans in town, and boy oh boy can they cook the meat. So we are getting lots of protein.

And getting used to the new baby.

Friday, October 13, 2006

Samuel Calvin Christian Stoltzfus

Samuel Calvin Christian Stoltzfus was born at 6:25 PM local time on Thursday evening, October 12, 2006. Both he and Mom are doing well.

Amy's water broke at 2 in the afternoon, and our friends Jack and Neepa (who live around the corner from the Hospital) picked us up at 3:30. We stayed at their house for an hour and got the girls settled in there, and then Neepa, Amy and Lowell went round to the Hospital. The contractions started hard and fast at 5PM, and she went through a normal labor curve and delivered at 6:25PM.

Samuel was born pink and hungry, with lots of black hair (all our kids did) a very round face (his cheeks roll when he does), and long thin fingers.

He is 3750 grams, or 8 pounds 4 ounces, and 52 cm long (is that 21 inches?) and a head circumphrence of 37 cm (15 inches?). I need to double check those myself, as I have not yet done a complete exam on him myself.

Why would I do a Complete Exam on my son? Because I am the only one who will.

He latched on well, and slept a fair amount through his first night on earth.

His big sisters are ecstatic.

More later.

Samuel Calvin Christian Stoltzfus


Taken when he was 15 hours old.

Thursday, October 12, 2006

Off to be closer to the Hospital

Hello, if anyone is reading this at this time.

It is 3 in the afternoon on Thursday, October 12, and Amy's water just broke.

There aren't any contractions yet, but we have called Jack (who lives close to the Hospital, and has a motorized vehicle that is not a rickshaw), and we are going to go to their house for an hour or two and await contractions, and then to the Hospital.

We will keep you posted.

WHOO HOO (I hope)

Tuesday, October 10, 2006

No particular reason

Two sisters waiting for a sibling...

Alter Altar? Lowell can't spell and Aunt Lydia rules

Thank you Aunt Lydia (aka, mtmama) for pointing out that I had mispelled "Altar" as alter.

For the two doctor job interviews I have had in life (HFA and Mille Lacs), in both of them, I verbally told them during the interview that I could not spell.

They hired me anyways.

Monday, October 09, 2006

"This is better than any brick road in Charleston"

Amy is still pregnant.

Various people have written with various helpful hints on how to induce labor.

Amy is still pregnant.

One friend (formerly from Charleston, South Carolina) wrote and described a Brick Road in the old part of town that was quite bumpy, and legend had it that if you drove over this road a few times, it would induce labor.

Last night we were coming home from an Iftar meal, when we came to a particularly bumpy stretch of road.

As the family bounced and tossed in our bicycle rickshaw, Amy commented, "This is better than any brick road in Charleston."

Amy is still pregnant.

I go to God's Bloody Place where the throats of the animals are slit for sacrifice

I was studying Psalm 43 with a friend (in Urdu) the other day. We came to the verse where it says (in English), "I will go to the alter of God".

I did not know the Urdu word for "alter", and asked my friend what it was. He did not know the word in English, and so gave the following English description, "It is God's Bloody Place, where the throats of the animals are slit for sacrifice".

Of course, it's an alter.

Sometimes I think of the "alter" as the carpeted stairs and dais at the front of the Church Meetinghouse. But it is not. It is a bloody place. It is where sacrifice and death take place.

I need to remember that.

Friends


Out for another Iftar meal last night. The girls has fun playing.

Saturday, October 07, 2006

Got in big trouble at work last night

On Friday evenings, I see patients at a Muslim Charitable Hospital downtown. I share a room with an Orthopaedic Surgeon, who is an excellent physician.

Since it is a charitable hospital, people do everything to try and keep costs down. This includes the Orthopaedic Surgeon using old fashioned Plaster of Paris powder and hand making a cast (in the States, everything is pre-packaged). When you use Plaster of Paris powder in a room with a large ceiling fan (as ours does), it makes quite a mess.

Last night, the Orthopaedist put on a cast and then had to leave quickly. So I started cleaning up after him. You know, sweeping off the patient bed, putting paper in the garbage pail and so on. AND THEN ONE OF THE WARD BOYS CAUGHT ME!!

"Oh NO, Doctor, you must not do this," he shouted, calling others at the same time. So a Cleaner was duly fetched, who did the pick up. But when I bent down to pick up a broom, to get the Plaster of Paris powder out of the main walk way, the protestations got even worse. So then a Sweeper was fetched, so that I would not have to do that.

At this point the President of the Board of Directors came in (he has an office next to mine), and sat me down to let me know in no uncertain terms that cleaing was unacceptable behaviour on my part, and that if anything needed cleaning, I must call the appropriate person.

Then he asked everyone in the room to leave.

"Uh-Oh", I thought, "I really overstepped my cultural boundaries and am going to get an earfull now."

But as the room emptied, he looked at me, and said in English (before this everything was in Hindi), "Is there anything stronger than Viagra?"

Thursday, October 05, 2006

Computer screen out

Well, I think my computer screen has died. By hooking up the digital projector, I can still see what is going on. How am I gonna fix that in Uttar Pradesh when a baby is due any day? We shall see.

Wednesday, October 04, 2006

No baby yet

Amy has been up in the middle of the night for the past several nights, with contractions. Some quite hard. But then after an hour or two, they just sortof peter out.

Hope to have a baby soon, as the LORD wills.